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Writing my vows

Dusti Shay

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It’s January 1, 2022. A new beginning. A fresh start. A blank slate, so to speak….right? That’s what a new year symbolizes.

Well, the Universe will reveal what she has in store for us soon enough.

I am happy to announce that I rang in 2022 surrounded by people whom I love dearly and who supported and loved me enough to spend the evening sans alcohol. This is a big deal for me.

I told them at one point last night, I don’t think anyone has ever loved me this much. These people, some of my chosen family, waited for me to make plans for New Year’s Eve, drove a couple of hours to spend the evening with me, and then hugged and supported me when the widow tears began to flow.

I’ve never felt more seen, loved, and important in my life.

So, how do I carry this love and sentiment into the new year?

I am more thankful than ever that I have people that love me so much. But, I also know that being able to fill my own cup is important so I can allow those who love me to remain human and also love others.

So, I wanted to publish my vows. I wrote them some time ago, but I haven’t forgotten them and I feel they need to be re-dedicated to me.

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